WEBSITE IS STILL GETTING UPDATED, ALMOST DONE 12/13/16
I started this blog as a depression confession when I first got out of the mental hospital program. They had recommended it as a hobby. I did it so I could get the group therapy experience in the real world. It worked, I enjoyed hearing positive feedback.
I’d assume some other people stopped blogging too. Maybe it turned into a “like for like” charade. There are less wordy sites for that.
mission statement: be different & humble
But hear me out…What’s the point of having nice things, relationships, and so on, if you aren’t content at the end of the day to enjoy them?
I often wonder if life would be better if we didn’t try and make it better in the first place. For example, factories came to being because it made life better for the rapidly growing population increases/demands.
Do we have too much?
Let’s start with this modern-day imaginary factory worker: he has deadlines—he must produce 100 little toy cars an hour or else he’ll be fired. Company policy. His supervisor MUST get the daily shipments out on the truck by 4:30pm or else all the labor for little toy cars will be outsourced. So 100 little toy cars get made per hour for 40 hours a week by our factory worker along with about a dozen others. Then of course, the factory needs to fulfill their contracts with the stores and deliver on time.
The little toy cars have now reached the store where stock workers labor to get all the merchandise onto the sales floor. Its all done on a tight schedule—gotta make sure the store is filled. So, everyone gets their jobs done, and now people have access to little toy cars!
These are VERY IMPORTANT little toy cars?
Aren’t they?
No.
Here’s what ends up happening: Aunt Elaine needs “just one more little thing” for her nephew’s gift bag because she didn’t feel she bought enough. He is six. She doesn’t know anything about him. But she would, “Never show up to a birthday party without a gift! Oh my gosh no, how tacky.”
Inside the store, the new little toy car section caught her eye. Fun/sporty blue packaging, all of them are front faced and fully stocked—of course it caught her eye.
She buys one.
Fast forward four months from when she buys the little toy car—the store receives an email from its corporate office to prepare the area that had little toy cars for a new product. Technically, the store only had to sell a handful to make even. So despite having to throw away boxes of merchandise, the store doesn’t lose money. The factory didn’t lose money. Workers will keep their jobs.
The product itself just never really mattered.
A factory worker could have lost his job over a little toy car that ends up in the garbage six months later.
We create work. And that’s silly.
“The unreal is more powerful than the real. Because nothing is as perfect as you can imagine it. Because its only intangible ideas, concepts, beliefs, fantasies that last. Stone crumbles. Wood rots. People, well, they die. But things as fragile as a thought, a dream, a legend, they can go on and on. If you can change the way people think. The way they see themselves. The way they see the world. You can change the way people live their lives. That’s the only lasting thing you can create.”
— Chuck Palahniuk
June 15, 2013 at 7:05 pm
Very inspiring, thank you for showing the world your light :)
June 18, 2013 at 4:40 am
and your dark.
June 20, 2013 at 9:24 am
good luck on your quest! You’re inspiring to me, as I’m not a writer (evident from my blog!) But I’m trying to learn how to communicate better through stories with iteration! Thanks for stopping by :)= J
June 20, 2013 at 1:36 pm
Thank you very much for your kind words. The whole reason I made a blog was to connect with people. You writing will continue to get better the more you do it. I will keep up to date on your posts and check up on your progress :P
June 24, 2013 at 3:03 am
So simply smart and honest, and…. well, I feel I could have said this, just not half as well and so precisely conveying the point!!!
June 24, 2013 at 9:43 pm
thank you very much for you support! :D it means a lot.
June 27, 2013 at 1:54 pm
yes; well i can’t agree moptre sometimes, the reason why i liked this page s i love someone that well, puts on many different faces? and well now i really don’t even know who she is anymore cuz she has twisted all my truth roundy round fer fun i guess, is kinna heartbreaking , so yep i can relate to this bloga lot! i can,……….so jest suffer fromme-itis too much and think they know more than the rest of the werld…Thanks again an namaste’ 2 u frum Q
June 28, 2013 at 11:21 pm
i love this i can’t wait to have as much fun as you do!
June 29, 2013 at 5:35 pm
Hi Alise,
many thanks for the follow on http://www.postsofhypnoticsuggestion.wordpress.com it’s much appreciated.
Wishing you all the best
Tony
PS I’m not sure if you know; I’m also on Twitter (www.twitter.com/btalks) and have a Facebook Page (https://www.facebook.com/PostsOfHypnoticSuggestion). If you fancy joining me there, you’d be very welcome.
June 29, 2013 at 11:25 pm
followed you on twitter :) thanks for your support
July 3, 2013 at 9:43 am
you’re welcome!
July 28, 2013 at 5:29 pm
Hiya!
Couldn’t have said it better myself, Always tried to write something on this topic but to no avail, you literally just said what going on upstairs..
I guess its easier to impress others, cause in a sense if they like it, its gives a sense of accomplishment, well that’s how I see it anyways
I applied for a poetry slam competition and they got back to me a couple of days ago with a NO! That was a big blow in the face, if i must say, cause that was the first time I felt proud of my writing and was going to say my peace to the world, but guess not now!
Okay now I’m rambling on, all in all
Great Post :)
July 29, 2013 at 1:07 pm
thanks for your support! the coolest thing about having a blog is the love and support you get from other writers. I like blogging because it’s more than just an electronic diary, it’s a way to say what’s on your mind and have people (like you) come along and say, “Hey! I’m in the same boat!” thanks again for your support.
July 29, 2013 at 10:25 pm
Some people let them self go sometimes… :) Diligent people are a step forward,
August 3, 2013 at 11:17 am
Hi Alise,
I’d like to give you a super sweet award. Love your blog and hope you accept.
See here for details: http://heilablog.wordpress.com/wp-admin/post.php?post=323&action=edit&message=6&postpost=v2
Hugs,
Heila
August 3, 2013 at 11:23 am
Here is a better link: http://heilablog.com/2013/08/03/super-sweet-blog-award/ :-)
August 4, 2013 at 11:39 am
Wonderful blog, wonderful post. Thank you.
August 4, 2013 at 3:55 pm
Great Blog… I’ve been perusing it and now am running way late for work :) I can’t wait to explore more of your posts, ciao :)
August 5, 2013 at 9:58 am
bless you, I am honored that I am the reason you are late for work! Rebel with me! thanks for you support, much love.
August 27, 2013 at 8:20 am
Hi! I’ve nominated you for The Versatile Blogger Award!
http://mmlatif2013.wordpress.com/2013/08/27/first-ever-blogging-award-d/
September 5, 2013 at 4:44 am
Awesomeness! Keep killing it and many will be inspired
September 8, 2013 at 8:08 pm
Hey I’ve nominated your blog for an award http://writtenobsession.wordpress.com/2013/09/09/the-liebster-award/
September 14, 2013 at 7:23 pm
Seeing as I Love your blog, I have nominated you for the Liebster award. Check out http://mzswags.wordpress.com/2013/09/13/the-liebster-award/ for the rest.
September 21, 2013 at 2:20 pm
Sorry for the late reply, but it means a lot that you would give me an award. Stay tuned for more posts! Much love.